How is it when a girl gets married? One who with all her dreams go to a new world, a new family.

One of my friends mailed me…something that said it all! Here it is, what it said,

Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should
marry with these
facts as well.

Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;

Who is earning almost as much as you do;

One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have
because she is
as human as you are;

One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life
just like you or
your sister haven't,
as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no
special concession to girls for their culinary
achievements ;

One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers &
sisters, almost
as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life ;

One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that,
her home,
people who love her, to adopt your home,
your family, your ways and even your family name;

One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from
day #1, while
you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new
circumstances,
environment and that kitchen ;

One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in
the morning and
cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as
you are, maybe
more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a
servant, a cook, a
mother, a wife, even if she doesn't want to;
and is learning just like you are as to what you want
from her;
and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you
won't like it if
she is too demanding,
or if she learns faster than you;

One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes
boys and even
men at her workplace too, those,
who she knows from school days and yet is willing to
put all that on
the back-burners
to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary
competition and your
inherent insecurities;

Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can,
but won't,
simply because you won't like it, even though you say
otherwise ;

One, who can be late from work once in a while when
deadlines, just
like yours, are to be met;

One, who is doing her level best and wants to make
this most
important relationship in her entire life
a grand success, if you just help her some and trust
her;

One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the
only one she
knows in your entire house -
your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly -
your understanding, or love, if you may call it.

But not many guys understand this…

Wishing all the to-be couples, best of luck!

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