SheDDinG oFF thE BaGGagE…

Sometimes, it is very important to ‘Let GO’…

A word, which is so easy to say, such easy spellings, no? We accept it or not, the put this word in action is not easy…not easy at all! Be it love, friends, family or in any other relationship, it may not be easy but anyways it has to be done. And if it is not, the load goes on with you, till the point you get tired of carrying it and you shed it willingly or unwillingly.

It is not only the sphere of human relationships that need to be scored off with, even uncertainties, unfamiliarity’s, or just a simple moment of loss has to be done away with. So, there was a realization that I have been carrying a lot too, I am burdened too, with thousand untold things, thousand unshared feelings and I decided to jot them down. However, I even know that these will never reach where they ought too, but that’s a part of my life, such need not be the case with everyone around. It would be much better, much wiser if you face them and speak your darkest confessions and the purest feelings. I don’t have the chance to do this, so here I GO—

TO FRIENDS

To all those whom I lost over the years…as I resorted to my shell. You found me sullen and silent most of the times, you got accustomed to it and while some of you complained, some of you never did. To all those who did complain, to all those who didn’t, I appreciate your presence In my life equally. We may not be able to retain the friendship, misunderstandings, my faults, your perspectives and many such things, did break in. Few of you left, few of you didn’t get back, and few of you let me be silent and took to silence yourself too. Some of you never asked me, some of you did query, some of you never cared, some of you stopped caring and I am sure some of you still care, but time has moved on and so have me and you. We may never be that comfortable with each other like we were, so it’s better to keep aloof and care somewhere, within our hearts, with silent prayers for each other!

For many of you, I still remember those good times, your good company and I do miss you all, sometime or the other. I don’t have any complaints, and no ore expectations, if you feel you can forgive me, if you are angry, I would love to hear from you. So that one day, even you shed all that and I won’t be a reason for those naggings, for that restlessness. I wish you all, a great life, may you all prosper and get better friends then me!!!

Reminds me of a quote by Leo Buscaglia,

Let go. Why do you cling to pain? There is nothing you can do about the wrongs of yesterday. It is not yours to judge. Why hold on to the very thing which keeps you from hope and love?

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